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Hi Carbomunity.

It's late, so I will try to keep this short. A recent deal I had with [MENTION=19768]Sick Boy[/MENTION] (http://carbonite.co.za/itrader.php?u=19768) / Judd has, over the last two weeks, taken a bad turn. I will now provide a time line and try to explain as it goes along. I will end off, with my decision. The reason I am posting this is because I would like feedback from the community in the event that my decision is too far off the mark. If the response from you guys and girls is overwhelming enough I will consider, reconsidering my decision.

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16-09-2015, 09:50 PM:

I posted this: http://carbonite.co.za/f47/dell-ins...ddr3l-1600-radeon-r7-m270-4gb-1tb-hdd-109217/

The add was up for a while and I am sure some will remember it. In the almost a month the laptop was with me I regularly tested it, showed it to potential buyers and did updates on it. In that time I had no problems with the laptop at all. In fact I often considered keeping it but couldn't afford to. I did not do the free upgrade to WIN 10 as I decided I would give the eventual buyer the option of taking the leap or not.


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10-10-2015, 09:42 PM:

I received my first and I think only PM from Sick Boy expressing interest in the laptop. And so the most excruciating four days of trying to close a sale I have ever had in my life began. We communicated via whatsapp. There were endless questions, requests for freebies and ever changing plans on how to make the deal happen. All throughout I was patient...

Anyone remember this gem?: http://carbonite.co.za/f3/please-vouch-110816/

So, after all that a sale is still a sale (http://carbonite.co.za/f47/dell-ins...radeon-r7-m270-4gb-1tb-hdd-109217/index3.html). I sent the Laptop off and expected to hear from Sick Boy if anything did not go according to plan.


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I heard nothing from Sick Boy after the courier collected, not even a thank you after delivery for the effort or the free laptop bag, but then I also didn't really think to much of it cause the rat race is on.

So Two weeks after the sale (28/10/15), I get a whatsapp from Judd saying he is having endless problems with the laptop. So now of course as a responsible reseller I try to figure out what the problems are and I attempted to assist him with some trouble shooting. Thing is, I keep getting the impression from Judd that he doesn't really want to bother trying to go through the basics with me (mem, hdd, mon tests, all the basic dell self testing you can do from boot). But we eventually go through it all and no problem.

Then his tune changes slightly and he mentions to me the monitor isn't working right and there is a little flashing white line on the screen near to the START area. Okay, I get visual of it from him via a video and this obviously can't be right so I start following up on it. I spend the next few hours on and off the phone with dell's techies trying to get this sorted. Time, and money...

Eventually the techies and I spend a few days on the phone to each other and they are as frustrated with trouble shooting as I am as it seems either Judd or his ISP aren't coming to the party and they can't diagnose. At this point I am wondering why Dell doesn't just send out a Techie as this machine has boss warranties but If they can't diagnose they don't know what part to send with so what now?

Now dell says provide us with the invoice and lets make a plan to have the laptop replaced. Okay, so now for a week I struggle to find the original importer. So in the mean time while I have feelers out I decide to type out my own Invoice (Don't even know if I did it right), and I sent it off to dell support so that they can escalate the request. They accepted and sent back a credit something or other to be taken back to the original supplier or retailer whom I am still trying to find.

Now, the meaty bit. So I eventually agree to either refund Judd in full or facilitate the replacement for him. I tell him either way I will need the laptop couriered back to me, All at my cost, no problem. Once I have received the laptop in good condition I will either do an Instant EFT or if he prefers he can wait a few days for the replacement and I will courier it to him, at my cost again. Sounds simple doesn't it?

Well apparently not, he wants me to send the money first, or the replacement first. I say no, unfortunately that's not something I am willing to do. For various reasons, but chiefly the fact that I heard nothing about the laptop having any issues for two weeks, or the month it was with me. So I want to confirm it is not a driver issue or conflicting software as he made the update to W 10 in the two weeks he had it, and I want to confirm the issue is not due to physical damage (This was my biggest worry after the two weeks of silence). I do a 7 Day money back guaranty for all my goods, in my 90+ deals on carb I have refunded two buyers for mistakes I have made,and they were still nice enough to leave +Itrades. So I am not unfair, I will refund you if the product is faulty or not as advertised.

However in our dealing I had far to many red flags go off to take a leap of faith on Judd. Our conversations always seemed to be weighted in the direction of where he wanted them to go, and then when I ask a question he suddenly changes his mind and something else is the issue. His mood also seemed to vary widely. One msg would be an ultimatum and the next with the patience of a Saint. The things he said and the fact never quite seemed to match up, even the correspondence between him and the dell support guys and between him and me, supposedly for the same issue was conflicting. All of that and more I have not mentioned yet, depending on how dirty this gets, led me to agree to a refund on the terms of a physical inspection. Which is normal I imagine. If you go to a shop to return a faulty item, you must take it with, physical damage by the consumer is not something many people are kind enough to cover.

Also, I think offering a refund after he had the Item for almost three weeks was nice of me. Anything after 7 days and I could have told him to stick it. But i didn't, I offered him the refund,on the term of paying him once I receive it back, and because he was unhappy, or for whatever ulterior more sinister reason I suspect he would not let it go. He wants the money first...

So much so that his last messages to me on Sunday night were a thinly veiled threat, and then a:

"I'll be in contact soon."

Following three days of silence (with my offer to refund still on the table), on Thursday 12 Nov I received an email from him with a letter attached from his attorney instructing me that the sale has be terminated and that I must refund him immediately...

So, to my point:


YOU SHALL NOT PASS!!!

/RANT ON

Up until I received that email I was still willing to refund you. However, I do not respond well to bullying or the sub-standard legal practices and bad grammar of your mighty attorney. I'm old school from the East Rand, Germiston, if you want the gold out my teeth you better be ready to come and pull them yourself.

Also, your attorney seems to think you purchased the laptop on 14 August (As per his letter), so that would mean you have now had it for three months? Cool story bro.

I dealt with your indecision, your low balling and then begging for freebies. I accepted your two week silence in good faith and still helped you trouble shoot and spent time and money on making a plan to have a channel through which to have the laptop returned and have you refunded. From the start you have been less than honest and now you threaten me with legal action? Careful bud, you can't play with the big dogs if you piss like a puppy. Also, your attitude needs some tweaking man, if you smell shit everywhere you go then check under your shoes.

Conclusion

You have now had the laptop for 1 month (or is it three?), legally being that this was a private sale on a classifieds website you can come back to me on private sales within 7 days but you only approached me after 14. After which I was prepared to help you through fair business practices, which were not good enough for you, so you resorted to thuggery. So here is my offer now:

No more support from me.
No more refund offered.
No more shits will be given.

/RANT OFF

So that's it, anyone who feels the need to contribute, please do. Sorry for the bad spelling and typo's, long day.
 
Find out who the importer/original supplier was, give him that info and tell him to sort it out himself,

Then be done with it.
 
Last activity 13 October. The feeling I get when I go through his previous deals and the threads he was interested in is that he buys where he can for cheap and possibly selling again to make money. Perhaps he had someone who was going to buy it from him and after taking it from you the other party pulled out and now he is stuck with a laptop he is struggling to sell. And it seems to me that he was trying to pull a quick one on you by asking for the refund and then sending the laptop. I mean it is clear you are a well established user with a high and perfect iTrader. You had A LOT more patience than I ever would have.
 
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Dealt with dim_mak an amazing guy to deal with, you did the right thing man. Let's hear his side of the story.

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I would have blocked him a long time ago, what an ass. Well done for how you handled it


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I won't help him anymore. And yes the little letter would've made me laugh.

Nice statement you made : "if you want to play with the big dogs don't piss like a puppy"

I'll leave him with his tail in between his legs. Don't talk to him anymore. You did much more than i would've done especially after being a "boks"
 
"patience of a saint" you [MENTION=28484]DIM_MAK[/MENTION] has got this, I would have been on my way there with a 12 guage

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I think you could have handled the situation a bit better- sending a PK would have been my primary choice! Yoh!

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Find out who the importer/original supplier was, give him that info and tell him to sort it out himself,
100% in agreement with this. Sounds like you have been more than accommodating and fair.
But, let's hear the other side of the story as well, even if just out of curiosity.
 
Subscribing. Holding comment till he replies (I have a tendency to say bad things).
 
Seems he is in randburg,maybe get a local carb member to go and check out laptop, if all ok, instant eft and carb member takes the laptop, he is probly around 60km from me, if needed i will drive out there for you
 
I think he is in Port Shepstone if my memory of the shipping is correct.

Regardless, at this point I won't have anything to do with him anymore, not after that letter.

Look, last night when I typed this out I was tired and cranky after working till quite late, I'll be leaving soon and will prob finish work tonight round 20:00. I don't think I was unfair, but I think it would be good to get his side, he will be far more detailed with the preceding of events and i'm sure will find the time to post our conversation from first comms to last comms on whatsapp. I am actually hoping he does this as I don't have all of it.

If I get time i'll check back in on th thread today but might only get a chance much later.
 
Very interesting. I don't have anything bad to say about either party, but I will say this:

Bad communication is a choice. It is not a product of circumstance. If you know you are too busy at work to properly communicate, don't become a member of a forum and make deals. Bad communication is almost always a sign of a flaky deal or member.

And another thing: I see lots of members interested in buying something, and then they reply in the thread with "yo pm me bro". What lazy half-assed behaviour is that? If you are interested in buying something you contact the seller directly and make an offer or arrangement.

The lazy entitlement society we live in is shocking sometimes. This afternoon I will drive to Pick and Pay and shout from the parking area for them to bring me some apples.

Sorry for the rant and off topic - I just think it needs to be said. There is a set way of doing things right and preventing bad deals.

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Nope, sorry, he doesn't have a leg to stand on.

If he didn't return the goods for inspection, he can't expect a refund... open & shut case.... if you're concerned about the legal ramifications, you can call up the law firm in question, and clear up the misrepresentation from his side with written evidence of correspondence between the two of you. As it stands though, you're justified in no longer wanting to deal with him.

And if I may offer a word of advice - simply don't deal with whingers and arseholes --- if someone appears to be difficult to deal with and high maintenance, that's because they are.
Don't get me wrong - there's a clear-cut difference between the cautious uninitiated who is new to online trading, and the oke who asks a million question and tries to make you jump through every hoop imaginable.

I had an oke phone me up a few months ago regarding the Sonos kit I was selling not too long ago, and got a bad feeling from the get-go... lowballing me off the bat, saying how he doesn't want to horsetrade, and generally just playing the domineering bully card to try get his way... then he wants me to deliver - and then over and above that, he wangles into a subsequent conversation that he wants me to install and configure the kit for him, as he doesn't know much about it.

I was then contacted by a second buyer - simple, straightforward meet-and-greet, as he already had Sonos kit and just wanted to expand the environment.
Upon being told this, the first buyer then suddenly offers me more money, "opens up his schedule for me to come install for him", blah blah blah...

Long story short, I sold to the 2nd buyer for about R2k less than I would have gotten from the 1st - but I know that I saved myself a whole load of aggravation and "technical support" with an inherently difficult person - which to me, is totally worth the financial impact.
 
He's not been online in a month. I want to echo what Matthew said.
 
[MENTION=28484]DIM_MAK[/MENTION]

I agree with you dude - you've been more than accommodating with this knob jockey - the whole situation stinks to be honest, I also looked at his iTrade, and he has a negative rating already.

This is from the "Please vouch" thread this pillock made about you:

So, after viewing http://carbonite.co.za/f23/bad-deal-sick-boy-pass-113346/#post770870 that thread, this seems like a bit of reverse psychology to me - asking if a senior member with a shit load of positive iTrades is legit? Seems to me he's trying to seem cautious and put himself in a positive light, coz shame, if he's worried, he won't be a scammer.

"Trust and you'll be trusted... said the liar to the fool."

Scammer sense is tingling.

So yeah, you were willing to sort him out and even pay for shipping to get the machine back, etc... so IMO, he can go fuck himself with a cactus.

Also, I'd like to see any major retailer just refund blindly without inspecting the item themselves first...

Anyhow, good luck with this, but I personally don't think this moron is going to come to the party to state his side.
 
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[MENTION=28484]DIM_MAK[/MENTION]

You have done more than enough.
I agree with you 100%. Refund se gat, he does not deserve that at all anymore.

At least you tried bud.
 
You handled this like a boss Dim.

But he deserves zero assistance from you from here on out.
 
[MENTION=28484]DIM_MAK[/MENTION], you went above and beyond. There should be nothing left that should make you feel bad about this. Let him sort himself out for now, and I reckon unless he has a very good story to add to this then a bad itrader for this deal is in order from your side. Let me know if you need help with that.
 
I agree with BillyBob.

Why you even went so far out of your way when he chose to respond in that manner is a testament to your character.

I would have send him a picture of my middle finger telling him to get fucked! I also don't deal with the bullying type very well.

His attorney has no ground to stand on anyway and it was just the sign of a coward who cant stand up and deal with the issues before him as an adult.
 
I would like to know who the attorney is that agreed writing that letter?
[MENTION=24263]Sickboy[/MENTION], you are the reason we have middle fingers.


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I would like to know who the attorney is that agreed writing that letter?
[MENTION=24263]Sickboy[/MENTION], you are the reason we have middle fingers.


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Also, your attorney seems to think you purchased the laptop on 14 August (As per his letter), so that would mean you have now had it for three months? Cool story bro.

I'm no expert...But isn't this fraud? Since he willfully misrepresented information on a legal document for personal gain?
Sorry dude. This kind of customer is why I am very careful with who I supply services too. Always get the wingers that blame you for their broken toaster because you installed a printer :/
 
I'm no expert...But isn't this fraud? Since he willfully misrepresented information on a legal document for personal gain?
Sorry dude. This kind of customer is why I am very careful with who I supply services too. Always get the wingers that blame you for their broken toaster because you installed a printer :/
Well you are operating under the assumption said legal document is...well...legal, and not something he drummed up while on the shitter.

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Well you are operating under the assumption said legal document is...well...legal, and not something he drummed up while on the shitter.

I agree - seems to me like a futile attempt to scare/bully DIM_MAK into submission, and it's done exactly the opposite.

Top notch moron this [MENTION=24263]Sickboy[/MENTION] guy is.
 
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